Just a little thought...

 Every person have some kind of limitations in their minds 

and these limitations become a big cause to distract a whole
  
personality toward negativity and when a person with limited

 mind get some power he tried to impose his personality on

 others actually that is the main root of conflict.

We all in the same boat ,absolutely a mind who have lack of 

knowledge and little exposure see the world from narrow 

sight.

if we want to see the whole world Peaceful,have to start all 

over again and we all need to be strong enough to soften 

the rigid in our hearts and minds, to find the some soft spot 

and stay with it , our character should be as high as kite, 

getting knowledge should be our first priority.

This is the courage we all need to have with responsibility..

Let's Start from today to change ourselves to make the world 

peaceful :)

Toss-Up

If we look around the world we can see there are many problems everywhere. Conflicts, anxiety, violence are exceeding days by days. There are also many groups and communities formed to find the solutions Instead of Making the situation better seems that they add fuel to the fire. Actually every organization is biased and working for their own agendas and creating confusions for the general public. Confusions are everywhere instead of to remove these confusions we take some steps in our life which are more dangerous and create a thousand of more confusions. When we become totally hopeless from all of our efforts we feel that we need a guider. And we look around toward religious scholars, Psychologist. Doctors and other opinion leaders etc and blindly follow their instruction and ways. If we choose the good guider it makes our life on the other hand if we choose the wrong one it Destroy our whole life. Unfortunately we don’t know what we should have to do because we don’t have enough knowledge, self confidence and absolutely we are far away from realities. We all are living in the fantasy and illusions world  where we only want to see and hear those things which will give us a pleasure for short time without concerning it will harmful for all of us and also for the upcoming generation. We all discus the problems, condemn on it but not to make some positive reaction toward them. The main cause is that we All Bark and No Bite. Means to say no one is ready to make some action against the illiteracy and cruelty. Actions speak louder than words so we need to take some serious steps before the situation become more cruel and violent. So we have to decide from today what we can contribute from ourselves for change or if we will have to remain toss up?

When moments become memories

               

                                              
  

           I gave four beautiful years of my life To university of Gujrat..I can't forget each and every moment which i spent there..I still remember my first day clearly when i entered in Uog with my parents..after fulfilled all formalities from university management my parents was gone back to home.. Kind of odd, really,  all I had was a sort of sick feeling after realising that I was actually become alone.. It was hard enough for me to smile in totally a new environment - God only knows how it was for those who'd missed their homes. but with the passage of time Uog became my life:D;paccording to me University is the time of our life where we get to live it as fully as we ever can. Superb time when we just put aside every restriction and every boundary and just go with the flow. we can easily term it as the best time of your whole life. University gives us memories that would burn in our heart until we die and the flames never flicker to death;)...well the scarier part of university life is obviously that of studies:D;) quizzes assignments  Presentations and specially exams were depressions:p.I must want to say it is Difficult but also important to maintain a balance between everything to get through studies and also to enjoy the pleasures of life as well...though also had some bad experience ,, and spent hard time but most of above is that I have learn many things from there. 

Everything put through, university is the most amazing time of our life and we should cherish each and every moment of it because we will take these memories with us for our life ahead :)

Am badly missing my Hostel room and all that fun we did there..also my class room,lectures, backs benches, bunks ,fun, Crazy acts and togetherness of all of my sweet, spooky and zany friends..<3 font="font" nbsp="nbsp">

One does not decease with the deceased.

everything has to come to an end sooner or later, nothing can last forever. when our heart stops and soul departs, that is the end of our journey in this world. however, it is not necessary that when our breathing end and our spirit leaves the body then only our life ceases to exists. sometimes the death of a dear one can also extract the life out of us..
sometimes we become too attached to world objects, which only need to a dissatisfied and unhappy life. on the other hand, there are few blood relations who means allot. God himself has ordered us love them.their loss is a huge lose , and that pain has great value in his eyes..but that pain should have its limits.spending;s one's entire life in depression makes him angry, after all he is the one who gifted such a beautiful relation and he has right to take it back.
at times, certain events donot occur according to one's will, which lead to disappointing  and depression. but what one forges is that everything is pre_planned and whatever happens, happens for a reason. there are some benefits for the individuals hidden within it, that he is incapable of seeing at that time.
life is a precious opportunity, a privilege, gifted only once. one should make the most of it and instead of crying over what is lost, one should move on and try to seek his happiness, because in the end that's all that matters.

because life always has a way of moving on, whether we forget our old memories or give way..life does not stop for us. the real courage lies in facing the truth and eventually , letting go

relations are precious..take care of them

a  relation need much time to become good,closest and reliable but it need only few seconds to destroy..  well  we need to be careful in any kind of relationship.. because little misunderstanding can lead to destroy our whole relation and memories with specific person..
according to me the major reasons in any relation that become the cause of tensions and problems in a relations are communication gap between people and lack of understanding..because whenever you are in conflict with someone, there is no factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it and that factor is attitude..it depend on us that which kind of attitude we use positive or negative.a famous scholar said "People change and forget to tell each other.  .that's why when you are in a relation try your best to neglect the tiny mistakes of others.ask the reason with soft way,try to listen others point of view and than give your own but in soft way..always try to understand other..and don't stress on reasons much because reasons not matters its only persons who matters.

Get out and see some nature!

 Stavanger is a beautiful little quiet city, but the true beauty lies out in the mountains and the countless Fjords on the west coast of Norway.

bitter reality of life